Comments on: Should I Warn That Girl?

By: teenie

teenie — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 21:27:46 +0000

I totally understand you wanting revenge on your ex but why stoop to his lever just let it go. Under no circumstances would i allow him any kind of contact with your daughter. He will bad mouth you and turn everything around and make it sound like you were the one who left him. Your daughter is sweet so keep her that way.

By: TRISHMATT

TRISHMATT — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 12:49:51 +0000

WOW!!! You are too much drama for me. Try to grow up a bit and straighten out and put this B.S. inthe past. Let it be.

By: cheerfullysmiley

cheerfullysmiley — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 04:52:53 +0000

I don’t think you should talk to any of them after what he did to you and your daughter. As for your daughter, you might need legal help for this one. I wouldn’t let him step one foot near her. NOPE!

By: joan_of_freakin_arc

joan_of_freakin_arc — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 01:08:18 +0000

god has recompensed u for your heartache and loss, stay away from him, and his family. be thankful for your new life and forget about telling anyone about him, she will find out on her own. don’t do anything that would cause this man to come back to u on anything. focus on the now not the past.

By: CMA Mom

CMA Mom — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 07:44:05 +0000

Sounds to me like God has given you beauty for ashes through your new family. I would personally try to forget the ashes as much as possible, but don’t worry; I don’t think you will lose the lessen you learned about hooking up with the wrong guy. If it’s not too late, I would seek to file charges against the bio-dad. He has no right to be free after what he did to your baby and you. He certainly has no right to be in the same vicinity as you and your daughter. I see her bio-dads’ family as idiots, but I see him as an equal idiot for trying to kill his unborn child and possibly you.
Try to visualize you in your baby’s shoes:
1. If you were the baby girl, would you want to be put with such a dad and a family that wants you dead?
Your item #2 says it all when you called your X a fool. I think you know you need to lose him for ever.
If he is still married to the lesbian (or whoever else) and has married another girl, I would attempt to notify the proper authorities that he is a polygamist and if they do their job, I would thing that his ‘new wife’ will find out the truth about who she married.
Your baby’s dad should be charged with attempted murder. Why are you laying all the blame on his mother, evil as she is?He is the one responsible for the beatings, etc.
I would love to see his ‘new bride’ get out of this marriage.

By: lpogue2005

lpogue2005 — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 20:51:06 +0000

1) Stay as far away as possible from this man and his family, I would cut all contact with them. His intentions may be to kill your daughter. You dont need to warn his new wife of what has happened in the past. If she confronts your ex husband you may end up in deep trouble again.
2) Dont press charges against your former in laws. What’s done is done, and if they found out you tried to press charges agains your former in laws, they could come back and harm you and your child.
If you have a wonderful husband and family now, then cherish them with all your heart and forget about the past. What’s done is done. You may be doing more harm than good by trying to punish those people now.

By: Michi R

Michi R — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 17:41:38 +0000

I think you should try to find a way to warn her but if you cant without eeing him then dont. one he sems CRAZY this could be a trick to one take your baby or two try and do somehting horrible to her. S try and warn the girl if you need to call police by where they live explain the whole situation and see i they can do anything about it if they cant they pray for the girl and you shoul either move or whatever you need to do to make sure your ex cannot contact you or your child ever again. your childs saftey is at risk and as sad as it is for the other girl your childs safety comes first.

By: Lassie!

Lassie! — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 08:31:41 +0000

Just be thankful that you have a good life now. You were so lucky to get away from this guy and his weird family.

By: Jenny J

Jenny J — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 16:09:51 +0000

you can file a restrainning order against then. You should’ve set that out during the whole running away process…you don’t know if hes still out trying to get her…after all that do you really want your child to go through another tramatic incident in her life? she been through enough from the moment shes been conceived you as well.. dont put yourself through it again…

but if you REALLY do want him to be a part of her life…i would suggest NEVER leave the kid alone with him..

By: rachelrk

rachelrk — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 09:46:58 +0000

You should had called authorities after he beat you, now it is to late. I am sure the other woman will find out on her own what type of people they are. As for your daughter she was beaten before born by this man do not let him see her for something bad could happen. His family also need to contact, none of them are deserving of this poor Lil Girl.